How To Build A Strong "Building"?

The very good answer for that question is a good foundation. When a good foundation already in place, we can customize the design to whatever shape we ever want. So what's the relation between this strong building and love, you ask?

Do you want to get your best girl ever met? Then then answer is just same as the above question, you must have a good foundation first, how to deal with women. And the best thing to know how to deal with them is, "Don't Be Afraid To Fail". Yes, that is the best foundation.

Simple question maybe wondering on your head, so how do i get good at certain action? or task maybe? The answer for all of these, is do it, just do it. Or we can call it a Repetition.

Don't be afraid of this repetition, every skill is learned this way. This is no different with meeting women.

Just think about how you go about playing a sport, for example Baseball. Maybe you start with your dad lightly throwing a big orange ball, and you whack it with your big red over-sized bat. But eventually, you learn how to swing at a smaller ball with a thinner bat. Then the ball gets thrown faster, later, your swings get harder and harder than before. Sometime you miss more, but you keep swinging until you learn to hit that ball. Eventually, you get competent enough to notice which pitches to swing at and which to let go.

Yes, every skill can be learned.

What about women, what is the hard situation to deal with women then? The answer is emotion. Whenever we near with them, we feel not confidence. This is because many men often link the validation of their self esteem with a woman's acceptance of them. Therefore, in the emotional mind, the stakes are higher, because the pain of failure is felt more easily.

When practicing baseball, you can accept the fact that you strike out time and time again because you can train yourself to do better. You know, you're doing something wrong, and you're not afraid to strike out a 100 or 1000 more times in order just to get it better.

But when you apply that to women, just ask this to yourself: Am i ready to strike out with 100 or 1000 women in order to find one that I like and that likes me back?

Most guys will say "no" to that question. And they're the ones who stay alone and pathetic, whining that no one likes them.

The guys who do go out there and mess up with 1000 women, but find that 1 girl that will give them the time of day are the ones who are happy, because they got what they want. And next time, maybe it'll only take them 100 times, or 50, or 10, or maybe just 5 to find a girl who'll return their affections.

The fact is, meeting women is a number's game. In baseball, you won't hit a home run every time. Not every pitch of the ball is right or that. Some go wide, some you miss, some you misjudge. A few you may get a single, or a double, some you have to bunt.

So, now you get the idea. Yes, you got to go out into the world and meet women. And you got to go out there with the mindset that it's okay for you to fail when trying to find that one special girl that's gonna make your life better.

Don't be Afraid. Just repeat it until you find your best love.

The thing you must remember is, no one cares about you or your failures. Most guys know the score, they know that it's hard to pick up woman and even if you make a fool of yourself doint it, they can't blame you for trying.

Women know the score too. They get hit on all the time. To them, you're just another spoke in the wheel of the machine. Chances are, they've seen worse than you try and fail.

And in the end, the only thing people notice is success. No one cares if a woman blows you off. But you can be sure that when you're in the corner tonguing down some beautiful babe, people will notice then.