Do I Look Weird?

All of you must keep this on your mind, always... Looks aren't that important.

Notice, that I didn't say looks AREN'T important, but i said looks aren't THAT important.

There's big difference there.

Looks are important to an extent, but not as important as you may think. Most women have a lot of leeway in what they find attractive in a man, and this is can be used to your advantage.

Many guys think girls look at men the way men look at women. When a man looks at a woman, he judges whether or not he's attracted to her based on her looks. If she's overweight, has the wrong hair color, if her nose is too big... whatever it may be, the man may dismiss her completely, regardless of whether or not she's a really great girl.

Because men look at women that way, it's natural for men to assume that's how women appraise us.

This belief is both true, but at the same time misleading.

Women do take looks into account, but in the overall scheme of things, to women, looks play a smaller role in deciding whether they want to go with you or not.

Let's take an example here. i have a friend, he used to date a girl he was madly in love with. But because he was slightly overweight, he was always depressed, feeling he didn't deserve a girl like her. This bad attitude of him eventually ended up driving her away.

But he and the girl stayed friends, and as time went on, she met another guy that she fell in love with. Eventually, he went to visit her and met her new beau, and to my surprise, he discovered this guy was 10x fatter than he ever was! Seriously, this guy had a good 100 pounds than my friend.

The difference was, even though this guy was fatter and not as good looking as he was, this guy didn't care. He allowed his good traits to shine, whereas my friend allowed his feeling to dwell on his bad qualities.

Remember that women are emotional creatures by nature. They are more in-tune with how they feel and therefore more susceptible to their emotions.

What does this mean?

That women may immediately be attracted to a good looking guy because because he makes her FEEL GOOD right away. But if that same good looking guy is mean, or dumb, or turns her off in other ways and makes her feel bad feelings, she may decide she really isn't attracted to him at all.

Also, factor in that not all women are attracted to the same type of guy. Just like all men aren't attracted to the same type of women. Some women may prefer short men, or men with long hair, or fat men, etc.

It comes down to this: You don't know WHAT physical type a woman is going to be attracted to. So approach her anyway and find out if you're the one.

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